What/Where is your safe place?

I’m learning that most of our freedom is in telling people exactly where we are. Letting people know if you have room for what they expect of you or not. This place I’m in my life, I’m learning that I need my full attention + I don’t have any room for anything that doesn’t keep me aligned or balanced. The hardest part about being in a place like that is having hard conversations with those who don’t understand the purpose of it. So, I’m also learning that I shouldn’t feel guilty for not wanting to explain what led to choosing to be with myself + for myself. As much as it seems selfish on the outside, I need to do whatever it takes within so I can continue to operate in healthy love, pure intentions. You know what works best for you over what everyone else may feel you should do that makes them feel good. I feel safe with me + with me is where I know to always start back whenever anything is off course.